2020年12月19日,星期六
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Glenda Gordon

Glenda Gordon, MSW, has had a lifelong ministry to single Christians. Whether as an activities coordinator, church counselor, or workshop facilitator, she loves to serve and teach Christian singles. When she’s not in church, she's busy writing and doing photography, getting outdoors into nature, reading real books, traveling, baking, dancing, and eating out with friends. She writes a weekly blog for single Christians called, “For Single Christians: One is a Whole Number.” http://glendablogz.com

关系破裂后重新获得爱情的7个秘诀

Have 您 been in a bad relationship? I, like many women (and some men) I’ve known, have experienced trauma from being abused. Whether it was physical, psychological and/or sexual abuse by someone 您 trusted — who was supposed to love and care for 您 — or a total stranger, abuse damages 您r soul. It has left many of us fearful …

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应对袖带季节的十个技巧

The autumn leaves are turning beautiful colors as they float to the ground. The days are getting cooler and shorter. And the winter holidays are on their way to 您r singleness. <insert sigh> Here it comes again, strutting into 您r life every fall like clockwork, try as 您 might to avoid or ignore it … that darned cuffing season. We …

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你想结婚吗?

近年来,我还没有想到自己愿意结婚。我以为我永远不会生孩子,会独自长大,这让我感到安心。我接受了自己的单身生活,学会了享受独立生活。我对单身的想法很满意。我不孤独;…

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当你感到绝望时

绝望中没有“ U”。应该没有“you” in desperation, either. In the dictionary, we find desperation defined as a loss of hope or a surrender to despair. A state of hopelessness leading to rashness. Does any of this sound like anyone’s dating life that 您 know? Yeah? Let’s talk about it. Desperate 约会 Desperate dating leads …

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我从初恋中学到的11件事

A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away, I had a first love, a first boyfriend. (Man, was that a long time ago!) Do 您 remember 您r first love? Wasn’t it magical? I was 19. He’d started liking me late that summer, but wisely and patiently kept his intentions hidden. I had no clue he was testing me by …

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单身人士的健康习惯第8部分:性健康,第2部分

上次,我们探讨了节制可以保持基督徒单身人士最好的性健康的想法。我们讨论了性爱如何在一个坚定的圣经婚姻中无耻地蓬勃发展并不受阻碍,在这种婚姻中,双方都尊敬耶稣并彼此尊敬。我们中的一些人能够坚持我们的童贞,但是,伙计,这很难吗!我们不寒而栗…

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单身基督徒和圣神

每隔一段时间,我会遇到一个基督徒单身人士,他长期单调,乏味或不庆祝。无论是因为对单身的愤怒,宗教信仰,个性,对商业主义的反叛和交通拥挤,还是与其他人的不良经历(例如婚姻破裂),’我的态度是没有什么特别值得庆祝的。当前假期…

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单身基督徒的实践无神论

作为基督的追随者,我们理解信仰是我们精神认同的主要来源。我们在《圣经》中读到:“信念是所希望的事物的实质,是未曾看到的事物的证据”(希伯来书11:1)。我们被教导诸如“没有信心,我们就无法取悦上帝”(希伯来书11:6a)和“在信仰中毫无疑问地问”(雅各书1:6a)之类的东西。然而…

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单身人士的健康习惯第7部分:性健康

“Sexual health for singles? What are 您 talking about?” 您 may be asking. “Aren’t we Christian singles supposed to be staying out of bed?” Well, yes, God does tell us to stay away from unmarried sex, and for good reasons. He is concerned for our sexual safety, even though we are single. He doesn’t just tell us how to think …

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我们的教会没有单身事工

我最近从美国西海岸搬到了东海岸。这里的文化和思维方式截然不同,我仍在适应变化。我没想到的一件事就是看到我们地区的教堂没有单身团体!我很困惑。吃惊的。单身人口占人口的近一半…

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